I have been with my man for 10 years and I still fancy the pants off h that she loves. Certain intercourse isnt want it was at the beginning but an average of twice per week with plenty of handholding/cusdles etc. I believe it keeps the partnership near if you should be intimatem. Has she stated she isnt interested in you any longer?? Intercourse once per month seems a long time for you me. You state its been like this for 7 years. Bloody hell.
As a female, sometimes life/chores/children do block the way with sex-life (my experience) but we believe it is so sad that you will be getting no physical love from her.
You sound lonely op.
Welcome to my globe, if a person of you requires closeness therefore the other does it not’s an issue that is real. You will need to treat it prior to the void gets too large and it also becomes impossible. If it’sn’t addressable you will need to earn some big choices.
Ps when a month could be an extravagance, i am fortunate with maybe once or twice per year
She possibly avoids physical contact because she actually is concerned it might lead you into thinking you are likely to have intercourse.
Think about suggesting you would like to have cuddle in or offer one another a relative straight straight straight back massage however with an understanding that it’s never as a lead as much as intercourse. (suite…)